Spilled Milk: Based on a true story Paperback – June 7, 2013

Fast read. I enjoyed the way this story told her story of heartache and terror. Hopeful that it will teach some family a way to a better future.

This is a great book. Also an excellent read if you want to understand what living in a sexually abusive home feels like, or to help heal from having lived in one.I'm thankful for Randis describing the incidents that happened. It gave voice to something that is commonly covered over by a single word, such as "rape," "abuse," or "incest."These short words are so inept at describing the physicality and torture of such an act. They are also inept at laying out the many layers of what goes into child sexual abuse. A child's mind and personality are changed, in order to cope with the situation. They do things they would never have imagined doing. They never would have imagined them because they're innocent.Randis does a good job of portraying the environment and emotional battles that wage in such a house.It really does take just one person having the persuasion to care for such a situation to help wiggle an abused person free. Abuse is an extreme epidemic. I hope we teach children and adults what to do in situations like this. And for children, to always have the courage to say something to someone, because it isn't right.And I can tell you that the faster a person is removed from an abusive situation, the more time they have to heal. And the faster healing will occur. The longer anyone stays in a toxic situation, the longer it will take to get over the scars and damage left by it.Also this book highlighted some of the shortcomings of our legal and justice system. It's like you're persuaded to tell but then left in the wake without actual protection. It's messy and in my experience if you live in a metropolitan area where crime is common, family siutations are not treated the same as blatant criminal activity. I hope our leaders fix this paradigm especially. There needs to be an incredible plan that involves rescue, aid, and replacement for the inoocent parent and their children to get away from the abuser.

I am at a little bit of a loss on this one. I read it start to finish in one day NOT realizing it was a somewhat fictionalized version of real events. Only after reading it cover to cover, did I realize it was "based" on true events. I do not wish to cheapen the author's experiences because the mere fact that ANY of this is even remotely true is incredibly sad to me. I know it can and does go on in millions of homes the world over, and far too many children do not get to have a voice. Or their attempts to voice their horror are brushed aside by adults or no one willing to take them at face value and help them out from under the dark cloud of abuse. And even when they do, the system seems to fail them 9 times out of 10. As a former employee of a District Attorney's Office- I can say that children's cases are FAR too often considered "unsubstantiated" and forgotten. No charges brought.It was one of the things that infuriated me the most. Children who are victims often do not have a voice in the world of grown ups and it is heartbreaking to think how many suffer at the hands of their family members or even other adults who are PAID to protect them. Very sad story, very sad situation and an eye opening (if sometimes a bit tough) read.The only downfall I can see is the main character of the story. I think I (and others) would have appreciated a more believable main character. The good at handling absolutely everything, fantastic at anything she touches, incredibly smart and careful character suddenly turned exotic dancer turned counselor might be very tough for some people to relate to.But in any event, this is an important and touching book. I can certainly see how it would be helpful for victims looking for a way out of their hell, or a way to finally speak up. To release themselves from the guilt children often carry when their lives are a complete and scary mess :(

Spilled Milk is a compelling and heartfelt book based on real events, drawing readers into an emotional narrative that explores personal challenges and resilience. The story is well-written, with relatable characters and situations that encourage reflection and empathy.While the themes may be intense for some readers, the book handles them thoughtfully and authentically. It’s a quick read but leaves a lasting impression, making it suitable for readers who enjoy true stories with depth and emotional resonance.Pros:Based on a real, engaging storyThought-provoking and emotionalWell-written with relatable charactersQuick but memorable readCons:Themes may be heavy for sensitive readersSome parts feel rushed due to brevityNot suitable for very young readersA powerful and authentic true story that draws readers in and leaves a lasting impression. Emotional and engaging, though best suited for mature readers comfortable with deeper themes.

Great read!