--- product_id: 106350150 title: "The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse Kindle Edition" brand: "debbie mirza" price: "77 zł" currency: PLN in_stock: true reviews_count: 8 url: https://www.desertcart.pl/products/106350150-the-covert-passive-aggressive-narcissist-recognizing-the-traits-and-finding store_origin: PL region: Poland --- # The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse Kindle Edition **Brand:** debbie mirza **Price:** 77 zł **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse Kindle Edition by debbie mirza - **How much does it cost?** 77 zł with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.pl](https://www.desertcart.pl/products/106350150-the-covert-passive-aggressive-narcissist-recognizing-the-traits-and-finding) ## Best For - debbie mirza enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted debbie mirza brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Full description not available ## Images ![The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse Kindle Edition - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51FlqIvDvEL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ This book is the ONE STOP SHOP about Covert Narcissism *by S***M on Reviewed in the United States on February 20, 2018* I write this review nearly a year after I was discarded by a CN. Beautiful soul, if you are looking for answers and you’re finding yourself, as I was, endlessly searching articles and videos for something to help you make sense of things, look no further. I highly recommend finding a therapist or life coach first. After all, we need to understand things about ourselves that attracted a CN to us in the first place (most of these being admirable traits). But this book is the best supplemental resource to help you reflect on your situation and understand the actions you need to take on your journey towards healing.I consider myself far along in my healing process. However, like the author, I had to do an enormous amount of digging and researching before discovering the term “Covert Narcissist” and what that entails. For someone suffering through a discard and the relentless barrage of abuse , it was like being blindfolded on the front line of a war zone; you know you’re being attacked, but you don’t know the terrain nor do you know the type of ammo being used against you. Everything is foreign. All you know is the person attacking you appears to have hijacked the mind, body, heart, and soul of the person you thought loved and cared about you. Pain like none other.Debbie Mirza has given us a gift by compiling everything into this book. Like she says, you will get through this and you will emerge better, stronger, and wiser... I know for a fact this is true. I cannot even begin to express the abundance of blessings that came about once I found clarity.Even though I read this book already knowing how beautiful healing feels, I still gained so much. It helped me further refine my understanding of the dynamics between CNs and their targets, as well as knowing what I need to do for myself to prevent toxic people from entering my life again.My only wish is that this book was available to me when I was at rock bottom, feeling isolated and alone.Wishing you a blessed journey along your path to healing. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ... spent some time thinking about this review and how best to say it *by S***. on Reviewed in the United States on May 4, 2018* I've spent some time thinking about this review and how best to say it, because there is so much I could say about it that I don't have enough space here or time! I hope there is a precious woman out there that will read this review and purchase this book because she's dying emotionally, mentally and physically from a bad divorce, but is so confused about why her marriage ended and ended the way it did. After reading scores of books, spending hundreds of dollars on counselling, and trying medication, nothing seemed to help me come to a peace. One night as I was searching for answers by watching YouTube videos, I ran across an interview with this author and after listening to her, I felt like she knew my story personally! Finally, someone seemed to understand my trauma and had some answers. I couldn't get to Amazon fast enough to order the book!I am an avid reader, and I have never been so impacted by a book in my life, (besides the Bible!). I cried many times while reading this book, tears of relief, when the truth she speaks in this book started entering my heart. If you have not been able to move on from a painful divorce but have felt stuck in grief and confusion, this very well might be the book for you! I feel like God put this book in my hands and it has truly saved my life. I am so grateful to Debbie Mirza for writing it. It's given me the understanding and hope that I so desperately needed! ### ⭐⭐ disappointed *by C***D on Reviewed in the United States on December 30, 2018* There are some good aspects of the book. The writer emphasizes the differences between overt and covert narcissists (most people are familiar with overts but not coverts). She provides a good list of covert characteristics and much encouragement and support for survivors of covert abuse. In some ways, it's a good "starter" book.But two major covert narc. characteristics were missing: pathological lying and infidelity (cheating). The author mentions that coverts "may" lie, but that's a serious understatement. Covert narcissists are masters of gaslighting, word salad, manipulation, deceit, and psychological abuse...which automatically includes lying and disloyalty. A big problem is that her "case studies" (examples of clients' stories) lack variety. They are people who were in long term marriages with a covert narc. For some reason, she overlooks the much larger population of victims who had dated coverts. As a survivor of over 7 years with a covert "boyfriend", I experienced a shocking degree of lying, deceit, and serial cheating. Coverts are psychopaths. Psychopaths are pathological liars and highly unfaithful. The author also fails to address "trauma bonding", another serious effect victims suffer, which feeds into the cognitive dissonance and makes breaking free extremely difficult. Anyone who has been or is in a relationship with a covert needs to learn about trauma bonding and understand how it's affecting them.I bought this book because it specifically focuses on covert narcissism. I'd hoped to gain more insights into my former relationship with a covert. I've done a lot of reading on the subject of psychopaths and narcissism which has helped me understand and deal with my situation. Unfortunately, I found this book lacks scope and depth on the subject. --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.pl/products/106350150-the-covert-passive-aggressive-narcissist-recognizing-the-traits-and-finding](https://www.desertcart.pl/products/106350150-the-covert-passive-aggressive-narcissist-recognizing-the-traits-and-finding) --- *Product available on Desertcart Poland* *Store origin: PL* *Last updated: 2026-05-07*